Spill The Tea Cafe: Brewing Confidence, One Cup at a Time
🌺Aloha STTC Fam! 👋🌈
OMG, I bave to BRAGGGGGG! 👀 👀
Jasper’s Story: From Hospital Bed to Innovator 🌈💡
Two years ago, I met this kid in the hospital, lost and unsure of his place in the world. Fast forward to today: he’s thriving in college, working as a group facilitator at STTC, and just got named Young Innovator in Behavioral Health Tech. 🚀 He pushed through imposter syndrome, and now he’s changing the game! He didn’t wait to feel "ready"—he stepped into his power, despite the doubts, and now he’s changing lives
🎙⬇️Hear Jasper’s story on our podcast ⬇️🎙
🗣Real Talk: Imposter Syndrome is a Liar 🙅♂️
Imposter syndrome is the feeling of self-doubt and insecurity that makes people believe they don’t deserve their achievements/success, even when there’s evidence to the contrary. People with imposter syndrome often feel like frauds, fearing they’ll be "found out" as not being as capable or qualified as others perceive them to be, despite having the skills and accomplishments to prove otherwise. It’s common among high achievers, particularly those from marginalized or underrepresented backgrounds.
Imposter syndrome affects so many of us, especially those who come from underrepresented or underestimated backgrounds. Sometimes society—and even systems—treat us like we don’t belong, making us feel like we have to prove our worth. But the truth is, we have to be extra confident and sure of ourselves to know that we deserve to be here, just as much as anyone else.
Imposter syndrome is a byproduct of impossible standards society puts on us, and sometimes we put it on ourselves. The world often tells us we need to be "more" before we can show up, but you are already enough. Maybe you weren’t meant to shrink or silence yourself to make others comfortable. Maybe you’re meant to stand out to make a change.
💥 Breaking Through Imposter Syndrome 💥
Feeling like an imposter is part of the journey, but it doesn’t have to hold you back. Here are a few tips that have helped me (and Jasper) push through:
⭐Keep a "Wins" Folder: Document your successes—big and small. A thank-you email, a good grade, or a meaningful project—remind yourself of what you’ve already achieved. 📝
⭐Dress for Yourself: Confidence comes from feeling like your authentic self. Don’t wear the costume of who you think you should be—dress like someone who knows they deserve to be here. Dress in a way that makes you feel good and comfortable. 👚👗🧦
⭐Give Yourself Time to Grow: You don’t need to have it all figured out. Embrace the journey, including the mistakes. Growth takes time, and you don’t have to be perfect. 🌱
We all deserve to feel like we belong. Let’s stop second-guessing ourselves and show up boldly, because the world needs what only YOU can offer!
🎬Watch our Reel on Imposter Syndrome! 📹
✨STTC: Your Confidence Brewing Station 🍵
At Spill The Tea Cafe, we’re not just serving drinks. We’re serving up confidence, community, and the courage to be unapologetically you. Every time you walk through our doors, you’re declaring, "I’m here, I matter, and I’m ready to make a difference."
⭐How are you going to crush your goals this month?
⭐How can STTC support you?
Drop by, grab your favorite brew, and let’s talk about turning your dreams into reality. When you succeed, we all succeed.
🌈🗓YOUTH COMMUNITY CALENDAR 🗓🌈
🎃 Spill The Tea Cafe Halloween Party! 👻
Mark your calendars for a night of frightful fun! Whether you're ready to belt out your favorite karaoke tunes or show off your best costume, this is the event you don’t want to miss! 🎤🕸️
🗓 Date: Friday, October 18th
⏰ Time: 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM
📍 Location: Spill The Tea Café
What's Happening:
🎤 Epic karaoke battles
🧙♂️ Halloween costume showcase
🎃 Delicious refreshments & spooky treats
Honolulu Pride 🌈
Location: Waikiki Shell
Date: October 19th, 2024
Time: Parade 4:00pm | Festival 5:00pm
📅 Main Events:
✨ Sunset Parade down Kalākaua Ave at 4:00 pm on October 19
✨ Festival at Waikīkī Shell starting at 5:00 pm – featuring live entertainment, food, vendors, and family-friendly fun at the Keiki & Ohana tent.
We’re excited to announce Spill The Tea Cafe is partnering with Honolulu Pride this year to lead programming for the Keiki & Ohana tent, including:
🎨 Arts & Crafts
🎧 Silent Disco
🏰 Bouncy House
📖 Drag Storytime and more
Rainbow Prom 👑
📍Location: Capitol Modern - 250 South Hotel St
🗓Date: October 25th, 2024
⏰Time: 5:00pm - 9:00pm
Rainbow Prom is an inclusive celebration where LGBTQ+ youth and allies come together to enjoy a night of music, dancing, and community.
Designed as a safe and affirming space, Rainbow Prom embraces everyone’s true colors, providing an unforgettable evening filled with joy, acceptance, and pride. Whether you're dressed to the nines or rocking your favorite casual outfit, this prom is all about being yourself and celebrating love in all its forms.
Come through and show the world who you really are! 🌈💪
Boldly brewing dreams and crushing doubts,
Haylin & the STTC Squad
